Do not live your life thru memories. We can only truly live, become excited, happy ,sad, confident, relaxed, fall in love in the moment. After that it's a memory and the memories of these emotions does not compare to actually living it! Live life from one moment to the next, when its time to look back the memories will make soo much more sense then and only then because they only matter if you existed and lived thru the moments with all five senses "give or take taste" .
Life's all about experiences!